Welcome to the Murder!

Crows gather. The Murder is a space to gather, compare notes, and remember together. Here, lived experience becomes shared memory, helping us understand what shaped us as religious trauma survivors and what becomes possible beyond it.
THE MURDER (The Survivors)
Survivor Stories • Lived Experience • Camaraderie • Solidarity
A murder of crows is not a symbol of death.
It is a symbol of survival.
Crows remember everything.
They warn each other.
They pass down knowledge across generations.
They gather to protect the vulnerable and reclaim the fallen.
They adapt.
They endure.
So do we.
The Murder is at the heart of Let Them Eat Crow. It’s a safe place for a collective of people who have survived religious trauma and abuse. It is a place where lived experience, memory, and truth come together after years of being silenced.
This is where we tell the stories that shaped us.
This is where we make sense of what happened.
This is where we reclaim what was taken, not as victims, but as those who lived, learned, and now remember.
A gathering of people who survived and now live.
A record of what we remember.
A clarity that came after.
A place where no one can silence us again.
Here we share survivor stories, lived experience, camaraderie, and solidarity.
We name what happened. We expose the patterns that once hid in plain sight: gaslighting, love bombing, coercive control, manipulation, parentification, spiritual abuse, conversion practices, and the countless other mechanisms that shaped our lives.
We identify the systems, beliefs, environments, and structures that enabled them. We connect personal experience to the larger forces that made it possible.
This is a place for recognition.
A place for understanding.
A place to rebuild ourselves outside of coercion for the first time.
This is where we gather what was lost, what was hidden, what was denied, and what survived.
It is here where we will eat our crow. And maybe they eat theirs.
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